Chang-ch'o, an educated man, once asked the Chinese Ch'an master Chih-t'sang:
-Is there paradise or hell?
-That is not correct. When I was studying under the
Needing to be needed is related to loneliness and is an obstacle to freedom. Neediness is simply neediness - a need that will never be satisfied. When I no longer need to be needed and stop wanting to be wanted, I realise aloneness and see Love.
when the grandson gets squirrelly... I tell him to take out his patience out of his pocket and to put it on...hahahaha ...but often he says to this, "I can't grandma..I gave it away.." what can one say to such generousity...hmmmm