When Gensha Shibi, a Chinese Zen master, and a general
were eating cakes together,
the general asked:
- What is it that's used everyday but not known?
The master handed a piece of cake to the general and said:
- Eat this...
Needing to be needed is related to loneliness and is an obstacle to freedom. Neediness is simply neediness - a need that will never be satisfied. When I no longer need to be needed and stop wanting to be wanted, I realise aloneness and see Love.
when the grandson gets squirrelly... I tell him to take out his patience out of his pocket and to put it on...hahahaha ...but often he says to this, "I can't grandma..I gave it away.." what can one say to such generousity...hmmmm