One day Yao-shan Wei-yen (750-834), one of the well-known Chinese Ch'an master, was asked by the host of the monastery to give his sermon to the assembly who for a long while was expecting his teaching. Yao-shan said: "Strike the bell."
I can not dump the overwhelming visceral negative emotion (anger, dismay and sorrow) associated with the jealousy produced by an unfaithful sexual mate.
I have no strong negativity about other forms of jealousy or envy.
I understand that jealousy is a manifestation of attachment, greed and selfishness but unfaithfulness produces a far greater reaction than anything else. Why is this? MU
When there is love; when compassion is, there is no jealousy. And your societal conditioning on the ladder of competition - size matters - encourages you to think my cock a doodle doo is bigger than yours.