When a monk came to say good bye to Chao-chou Tsung-shen (778-897), a brilliant Chinese Ch'an master.
-Where will you go?
The monk answered:
-Any place where I can learn Buddha dharma.
When there is love; when compassion is, there is no jealousy. And your societal conditioning on the ladder of competition - size matters - encourages you to think my cock a doodle doo is bigger than yours.