Do not go after the past,
Do not lose yourself in the future.
For the past no longer exists,
And the future is not yet here.
By looking deeply at things just as they are,
In this moment, here and now,
When there is love; when compassion is, there is no jealousy. And your societal conditioning on the ladder of competition - size matters - encourages you to think my cock a doodle doo is bigger than yours.