On one occasion, the Buddha said to the monks this:
"No other form do I know, O monks, that so persists in obsessing the mind of a man as the form of a woman. The form of a woman persists in obsessing the mind of a man.
How could one choose such questions if you don't practice..lol " ......... I'm glad you practice sitting Zazen. I know sometimes it is difficult to get oneself to do the work. Do you have a teacher or are you practicing alone?