When a monk came to say good bye to Chao-chou Tsung-shen (778-897), a brilliant Chinese Ch'an master.
-Where will you go?
The monk answered:
-Any place where I can learn Buddha dharma.
The frame of reference labled "you" has a finite linear life filled with quantative stories of discrimination and seperateness. It is an elaborate construct that falls apart when identity becomes larger than a body. There is no sense of loss and no sense of aquierment,when all,is all.