"But," asked Vaccha persistently, "when one who has this emancipation of mind (freed from self) dies, where does he go, where is he reborn?
The Buddha replied:
"The word 'reborn' does not fit the case."
"Then he is not reborn?"
The frame of reference labled "you" has a finite linear life filled with quantative stories of discrimination and seperateness. It is an elaborate construct that falls apart when identity becomes larger than a body. There is no sense of loss and no sense of aquierment,when all,is all.