On one occasion, the Buddha said to the monks this:
"No other form do I know, O monks, that so persists in obsessing the mind of a man as the form of a woman. The form of a woman persists in obsessing the mind of a man.
Just sat down to read this and was about to take a sip of coffee before I replied and... my coffee cup is not here. Where is it? Um, silence has no coffee for it, but my tongue needs it still, as do my fingers. Off to find it!