On one occasion, the Buddha said to the monks this:
"No other form do I know, O monks, that so persists in obsessing the mind of a man as the form of a woman. The form of a woman persists in obsessing the mind of a man.
I went into a 24 hour Starbucks around 2 am in the morning. Asked for a free bag green tea from the guy. "We don't give out free drinks, he said" I took my free ice water and left. The dumb Zen in me expects the tea to be always ready. I think, that's the rule. The tea is always ready. But not for free, not today. Oh well, the next day I bought a green tea latte and was on my way. Who cares.